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Post by fantom on Aug 4, 2015 19:55:40 GMT -6
A question came to me while reading the threads about how hard kids are working in the summer but I didn't want to hijack the threads: Do you and your coaches take some time off during the summer?
In the threads, some guys alluded to the fact that grinding all year wears on coaches just as much as the kids. I always take a week off right after school gets out. I go back to PA and visit family and friends. Our HC took a week off to go on a cruise. What about you guys? Do you do anything to get away and relax? I'm especially interested in hearing from the guys who really grind it during the summer.
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Post by agap on Aug 4, 2015 19:59:51 GMT -6
Nope. I'm lucky to get 5 hours of sleep a night during the summer, but not always by choice. I'm way more busy during the summer than during school.
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Post by fantom on Aug 4, 2015 20:04:36 GMT -6
Nope. I'm lucky to get 5 hours of sleep a night during the summer, but not always by choice. I'm way more busy during the summer than during school. Doing what?
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Post by mbianco on Aug 4, 2015 20:17:20 GMT -6
When I was a young single coach I thought coaches were nuts for missing time/vacationing on the summer. Now married with a kid my whole perspective has changed. I think it's very important to show your players that you spend time with your family. I encourage them to do the same in the summer before official football starts.
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Post by agap on Aug 4, 2015 20:21:36 GMT -6
Nope. I'm lucky to get 5 hours of sleep a night during the summer, but not always by choice. I'm way more busy during the summer than during school. Doing what? Working takes up a lot of my time in the summer. Than everything for football like weight lifting, meetings, camp, etc, as well as getting organized for the upcoming season. And there's always things that come up for school; like this week I have three meetings for school even though we don't start for another month. I don't have time in the spring or fall to get things done on my house, so that has to be done in the summer.
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Post by realdawg on Aug 4, 2015 20:35:22 GMT -6
I do. We have weights/practice 4 days a week during the summer. I play golf at least two days either after practice or Friday morning. We also have two dead weeks. Week of the 4th my family goes on a week long trip to the beach. Week of our state coaches clinic my family goes back to the beach for a long weekend. Season is a grind. Gotta give your fam some time.
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Post by jg78 on Aug 4, 2015 20:55:26 GMT -6
We have a week off as soon as school is out and have Wed-Sun off for the 4th. I always go somewhere during those periods and get away as much as I can at other times during the summer. I love coaching football, but it's not the only thing I want to do in life.
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Post by coachorm on Aug 4, 2015 21:02:06 GMT -6
Our state mandates the last week of June and the First week of July off for all high school sports. So this is my time that I take off and do whatever I want. I am thankful for this time as it lets me spend more time with the family and have two weeks of not focusing on football. Still think about it and draw up plays and stuff, but its not my main focal point.
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Post by 90rocket on Aug 4, 2015 21:12:15 GMT -6
Nope, my time is spent opening the weight room 3-5 times a week to lift and work O and D install as well as making practice plans for both O and D. Now I'm a young single HC and I love it 99% of the time but I was very jealous when I spoke to one of the winningest coaches in our area a few week ago. He said that his school pays 2 people to open the weight room morning and evening 5 times a week in the summer. He vacations with his family and just stops in time to time in the weight room.
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Post by holmesbend on Aug 4, 2015 21:28:35 GMT -6
I do, in between football 3 evenings a week in June, practice cranking up bt July 10th-13th every year & the 36 extended days I have with my teaching job in the summer Love and need it. We have a 2 week mandated "Dead Period" in KY for all Sports (always June 25th-July 9th every year).
Wife and I bought a boat 8 years ago before we were married, now with 2 little girls and we wear it out on the weekends. Out back in the pool during the week before workouts/practice, and zoo, aquarium, hop in the golf cart to hit around on the course in the evenings....different day trips on the off nights in June.
10 months out of the year, it's #1 on what I enjoy...but, 2 months out of the year (June/July), it might not crack my Top 20.
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Post by holmesbend on Aug 4, 2015 21:39:21 GMT -6
Nope, my time is spent opening the weight room 3-5 times a week to lift and work O and D install as well as making practice plans for both O and D. Now I'm a young single HC and I love it 99% of the time but I was very jealous when I spoke to one of the winningest coaches in our area a few week ago. He said that his school pays 2 people to open the weight room morning and evening 5 times a week in the summer. He vacations with his family and just stops in time to time in the weight room. ...there is a reason these guys have not only been able to do so long, but do it well. My grandfather was the winningest coach in Kentucky from 1998- up until another passed him up about 10 years ago. Still in the top 10. He was a HC for 33 years & won 298 games, 5 state titles at 2 different schools that hadn't won a title before him, and haven't since he left. I say that because what he was best at...was Golf. He's 75 and will shoot at or below his age to this day...even won the KY Senior Amateur some 12-13 years ago. Up until his last few years of coaching before all of the intense summer/7v7 fad really cranked up, it was the following on the last day of school ... "See ya the last Monday of July, boys." As he has told and does tell me...."They needed a break from me, and I needed a break from them. If I couldn't have gotten that, played golf and spent my summers with the family, there is noway I'd have done it as long as I did."
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Post by coachbdud on Aug 4, 2015 22:13:46 GMT -6
we do not have any set off time from practice
coaches miss for vacation, but usually it is fairly staggered, and no one is going crazy missing a ton
HC and i missed a few days in june taking our RB and another kid down to USC for their camp and we got to "coach" the camp
I missed a day last week, GF and I went to disneyland
WR coach missed a week in Mexico with his wife
QB coach missed a couple days went down to the beach with his GF
HC missed a couple days at the beach with his family
Coaches should get to have vacations too
i do not get mad at a kid when he misses some time for family vacations
and if a kid does the right things before and after the vacation i am not one to take time away from him
take my LT... made every off season lift, team captain, works hard every day. Missed last week, went with mom on a cruise...that is awesome, wish i was on a cruise.. he is still my starting LT
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Post by mc140 on Aug 4, 2015 22:26:07 GMT -6
I was mentally fried when track ended Memorial Day weekend. Thankfully had 3 weeks off before football started. Was off the week of the 4th and went out of town. Off this week due it being the dead period and doing absolutely nothing outside of some Hudl playcard stuff for week one.
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Post by tothehouse on Aug 4, 2015 22:38:22 GMT -6
I learned to use the adage..."work smarter...not harder".
I was the definition of grind....DURING THE SEASON. I put in 50 hours of time on football (yes...I counted one year) and had a family and full teaching load.
In the offseason I go at my own pace, but I usually do something football ish each day. I am at every workout and at most football events for the school.
Our program is currently (starting this year) coaching the JV and Frosh. And since my youngest son is an 8th grader...I'm the DC for that team as well.
Back to the offseason. This weekend will be my 7th annual golf tournament that I run (my wife and I do 90% of the work) for pancreatic cancer. We currently have football in the morning for 2 hours and then Pop Warner at night for 2 1/2 hours. I make everyone of them.
Do I take a break? Sure. When I feel like doing nothing. I stop...then sleep.
I'm a little different as well. I'm 43 and I will be done coaching completely when I'm 48 or if my kids stop playing football for some reason. I have 5 years of balls to the wall...then I'll get good at golf.
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Post by coachtua on Aug 5, 2015 2:34:33 GMT -6
In CA in our section we have a mandated 2 week dead period to be done at each schools discretion. At my previous school is was the 2 weeks prior to the start of camp. We also take the a week off right after school is out. Most coaches schedule their vacations during these times. At my new school being a boarding school we dont have the kids during the summer. At first i thought wow i get my summer back. However I didnt know what to do with myself come July, and we dont open camp for another week. Im starting to get a little anxious now...
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Post by wingtol on Aug 5, 2015 6:37:20 GMT -6
We only have weight room during June and a couple guys who live right by the school open it and run it. Being a bit farther away from school now I usually don't make it during June at all. I'm fine with that. I like to take advantage of summers off with my young kids, I always think of a line I read here " Remember your players won't be the one picking out your nursing home some day..." In July we start three nights a week work outs, basically practice without contact in shells, and it just so happens our annual family vacation is in July. I go without any hesitation what so ever. Once the season starts then I kick it into grinder mode. Just not worth it to work your self crazy epically when you have young kids. Enjoy them while you can. You can coach forever but your kids are only little once.
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Post by rsmith627 on Aug 5, 2015 6:58:26 GMT -6
In past years I would be up at 4:30 am M-Thursday, get to school around 5:30 and workouts in the AM would start around 6.
This year I moved across the country and haven't done anything football related until last week. This is the first summer I have enjoyed since becoming a teacher 6 years ago.
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Post by blb on Aug 5, 2015 7:14:41 GMT -6
Be intense enough to get the job done, but relaxed enough to enjoy it.
It's called Summer VACATION for a reason.
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Post by coachcb on Aug 5, 2015 10:11:29 GMT -6
I'm between coaching gigs right now (long story) but I always found time to do the things I wanted to do during the summer. I compete in Highland Games events around the area all summer long so I get my lifting and training in for that each day as well as working on my Masters. In my last gig, we opened the weight room four days a week for a morning session and an evening session, hit one out-of-town team camp and did our own mini-camp at home. I could always make the morning sessions but the evenings could be difficult at times. So, the staff and I sat down each week and figured out who was going to run the evening session.
It's not hard to run a program and relax during the summer as long as you plan accordingly and keep everything in perspective. In my formative years as a coach, I dedicated each summer to football; I always opened the weight room, ran all over the state for camps and attended all kinds of clinics. I also spent a lot of time training throwers for various meets through out the summer.
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Post by mariner42 on Aug 5, 2015 10:28:15 GMT -6
We take a week off immediately after school is out, we take most of the week of the 4th of July off, and we have a mandated 2 week dead period before the season starts.
I live in a resort town, people come here from all over to relax and have fun, I figure I can find a way to do the same.
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Post by lions23 on Aug 5, 2015 11:32:02 GMT -6
Bc of our kids we start the day after school. We have high mobility and poverty and kids moving all over the place. So in order to stay in touch we start immediately. We go three weeks on in June and then about 2 weeks over the 4th. We go 3 weeks on again with about a week to spare on mandated dead time. Sometimes we use it sometimes we don't. During the dead time I am sure to vacation. Have made family's vacation time and try to fill them up so to speak before the season.
This year I did not work in the summer to help out at home. So even though we practice 3 times weekly and have a 7 on I am home to take kids to school swim lessons tee ball etc. I make dinner and do the shopping. I love doing that stuff with kids so it is relaxation time for me.
Every Friday I took kids out of school and met my wife at the pool in afternoon. It has been a wonderful summer.
This stuff fills me up for sure and I need it with a full class schedule a college prep program and football that moves right to winter weights to track. Track.
My wife needs me to step up bc she is a professional.
I still grind and play golf with my dad too. I am rested up and ready start on Monday.
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Post by CoachMikeJudy on Aug 5, 2015 12:56:20 GMT -6
A question came to me while reading the threads about how hard kids are working in the summer but I didn't want to hijack the threads: Do you and your coaches take some time off during the summer? In the threads, some guys alluded to the fact that grinding all year wears on coaches just as much as the kids. I always take a week off right after school gets out. I go back to PA and visit family and friends. Our HC took a week off to go on a cruise. What about you guys? Do you do anything to get away and relax? I'm especially interested in hearing from the guys who really grind it during the summer. Yes- in theory I'm "relaxing," but honestly I just have a lessened workload. -3 days of lifting per week -2 Nights of 7v7 (I delegate that out) -Team/Youth camp is same week -Meetings with coaches -Meetings with rising senior parents regarding college process -Hiring coaches (just 1 year I'd like to return the ENTIRE staff...just once!) I'm off every Friday, Saturday, Sunday from these events. I work Monday-Thursday at minimum 8am-1pm. My kid goes to summer camp on most days I work, my wife (elementary principal) works Monday-Thursday. We had 1 vacation at the beach this summer that was relaxing- no calls, e-mails etc...just family, food, beer, and lots of sun. Honestly I'm ready for football but not ready to go back to teaching right now.
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Post by marinercoach1 on Aug 5, 2015 13:06:27 GMT -6
Took two weeks off in June and took my family to Hawaii. Much needed after spring ball.
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Post by 90rocket on Aug 5, 2015 21:00:56 GMT -6
In past years I would be up at 4:30 am M-Thursday, get to school around 5:30 and workouts in the AM would start around 6. This year I moved across the country and haven't done anything football related until last week. This is the first summer I have enjoyed since becoming a teacher 6 years ago. I did that morning stuff for a year as well. The thought process was that I'd be getting the winter/spring athletes in there. I was just too tired and fatigued to do it another year. Ended up going after school this year and while the attendance was a little less than mornings, I felt the kids had better workouts.
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Post by WingTheT on Aug 6, 2015 11:05:53 GMT -6
We have a dead week period (July 4th week) and we get the last weeks of May off after spring practice ends. Also, they took the HC and some of the assistants to Mexico on a trip paid by the HS.
Unfortunately I work at the feeder MS so I got to take my vacation to Taco Bell instead
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Post by Deleted on Aug 6, 2015 12:11:29 GMT -6
Yes. I do the summer workout, summer job thing. Stress ? Please.
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Post by fantom on Aug 9, 2015 19:11:49 GMT -6
We have the week off before the start of 2 a days. Some guys take a vacation, I do not. Actually, I've never been on a vacation. But I don't really feel the need to take one, my life is a vacation to some people. Whether you physically go somewhere is beside the point. If you mostly get away from football for a week that counts as relaxation.
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Post by oguru on Aug 9, 2015 19:18:29 GMT -6
We get about two weeks off during the summer. Normally in June. I took my two weeks in June one to work Ohio States camp and another to work Boston College's camp. Then I was in the office all of July and our bye week is the first week of the season so we will go ten straight weeks without a break and 15 if we make it to the championship game. I did take the 3-5 off to go to the Wisconsin dells with the girlfriend. However besides that I have been in the office every M-F and some weekends in the office. Fall Cam starts next weekend for us.
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Post by lionhart on Aug 12, 2015 20:02:34 GMT -6
Last season we made it to the state final (lost)..... But we played final 7 weeks on a Saturday. And we broke down film and met as a staff on Sundays. So we literally worked 49 straight days without a singe day off. I've never been so burnt . And as a staff we were all ready to kill each other. So this summer we each took time off and staggered it so there were always coaches around to supervise Mon-Thurs workouts. I took a week wi family at the beach. Another coach went to Myrtle Beach, our DC went away. We all recognized the need for time away. Now that camp has started, it's a grind like all you other guy have as well. Looking forward to the season but am glad I saw the smiles on my children's faces is summer. Really energized me.
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Post by coachphillip on Aug 13, 2015 8:17:36 GMT -6
I took two days off this summer to extend my vacation. I felt guilty, but it was definitely worth it. Getting kids into the weight room all Winter, Spring, and Summer is like pulling teeth. It's easy to get burned out when you're there every day and the kids get to play hooky.
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