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Post by jcarbon2 on Feb 21, 2008 20:47:46 GMT -6
I know this is going to be a little contrary to this board but this has happened to me one too many times and I wonder if I am not a good coach/person (that loves this game and helping the kids) if I stop helping others in my general area.
Here is what happened. Coach A (me) is approached by Coach B and asked if I could help him out with some stuff regarding his offense. We have a late night meeting (it was a 6-8 thing that ends up 9-12 thanks to him having to attend other things of his). He asks me to explain my offense and how I run it. I tell him that I can't because what I run at a lower level takes time and patience and I don't want to see it butchered. He kind of gets upset but I offered to help him out with what HE wanted to run.
OK, a little background here, I have had the same thing happen in the past and I always feel like I am giving away the edge I have (I make the calls and look up the material) and I feel they get all the benefits without putting in any work. To top it all off, In a few cases I end up having to coach against these guys a few years later.
i don't mind helping coaches on here or out of my area.
Am I wrong if I stop helping out??
John
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Post by rideanddecide on Feb 21, 2008 20:55:12 GMT -6
What's your position?
Are you a youth guy helping HS coaches? HS coach helping area coaches? What is this special offense that you can't stand to see butchered?
I would gladly help any coach THAT IS NOT IN OUR CONFERENCE with anything he needs. We are all thieves and beggars. That's how we learn and adapt.
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Post by dubber on Feb 21, 2008 21:46:54 GMT -6
If he is being ungrateful, screw him.
Other than that, help as much as you can..........at least I feel that way. I mean, if other coaches were not willing to share, I'd still be drawing up defenses with 12 guys and offenses with 7 guys in the backfield.
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Post by ramsoc on Feb 21, 2008 23:00:36 GMT -6
Help the guy out, and if he butchers it and fails, its his own fault, not yours. Take pride in what you do and spread the word. If he wants to suceed, he'll be back or will go and do his own leg work.
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Post by bhb on Feb 22, 2008 7:23:45 GMT -6
I wouldn't worry about facing them later - especially if they really do let you do all the research and then come and sponge off of your time & effort.. I don't care who you are- you're not going to learn all there is to know from sitting down with someone for one "6-8 or 9-12 session".. You can still help them (and I would- unless they're rude, in which case they don't want me around anyway so I wouldn't be there to begin with) but if they aren't willing to put in some time on their own they really won't notice any benefit.. If you've got the time, and they come and ask, I say give him a hand- if they have the nerve to ask for help they're alright in my book.. I know I ask every chance I get- some guys blow me off, but most don't..I subscribe to the pay it forward philosophy ( I know you do to John, this guys got you frustrated, it'll pass)..
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Post by jcarbon2 on Feb 22, 2008 9:46:24 GMT -6
Guys,
Thanks for the feedback. I think that it is very clear, thanks to the responses, that one should keep certain things secret or at least close to the vest when it comes to helping out conference opponents or guys you might face in the future. As I mentioned, I have no problem helping people out on this board or out of my area.
I think the rules I will follow will be to only help on fundamental progressions but no X's and O's to coaches in my area. I figure they can do the footwork on the defense or offense they think is best. That way I can give them an honest opinion and they can do with it what they wish. in other words, I will be helpful but will no longer give them the rope to hang me later. Loose lips sink ships. LOL.
Thanks guys.
John
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Post by dubber on Feb 22, 2008 10:09:56 GMT -6
What exactly are they interested in? Schemes or techniques?
More often than not, I'd assume schemes-----I'd give these freely. The "WHAT" is completely useless without the "HOW".
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Post by brophy on Feb 22, 2008 10:13:28 GMT -6
If you don't feel comfortable sharing - no 'mandate' from your peers is going to make you feel any better about it. You aren't obligated to share anything, so I wouldn't feel bad about not sharing. However, WHAT can you really "share" that is revolutionary ground-breaking in football? If this guy can't figure it out, then what can you really impart to him, anyway? I guess (and maybe I'm wrong), but I don't really have a problem sharing anything, mainly because; 1) it isn't rocket science
2) do you know the rationale behind its use (how do you know WHEN we will use it)?
3) do you know what we are looking to accomplish against every look we see?
4) even if you do KNOW, can you out-execute us?
5) If you can out-EXECUTE us, how do you match up with our personnel? ...and "its not the talent, but the talent in the TEAM"
6) if you can do 1-5, you will make me better - forcing me to adapt & make "my system" more bullet-proof
7) Reciprocity - I have stolen everything I know. How can I steal all of tog's concepts on "cover 2", then turn around and claim them as my own and try to horde that info from anyone else?
8) Sharing with other coaches is a practice that actually HELPS you more than it does them, because it can galvanize your beliefs in what you are doing and forces you to put "your stuff" into clearer concepts and ideas.
9) If you believe that play calls alone are the reasons teams win or lose, then you haven't been coaching long...
10) IF, after all that, you still don't want people to run this "super-scheme" without your 'consent' or support, then it is just an ego-thing, using football for some self-gratifying profit. I mention this, because if this exposed your personal insecurities, it is a great opportunity to make yourself better. Other than keeping your competition in the gutter so you don't get challenged, I don't see the strategic advantage of any "behind the curtain" secrets could help a coach. However, I'm not advocating to share - some folks just don't know what to do with the information you give them, anyway. I would be against wasting my time in that instance. Without being argumentative, your Wing-T / Slot-T stuff you clearly have taken from other authors. So, what would be so difficult to explain what you run, why you run it, and how you implement it? I think the REAL issue is, you don't like this guy - and for that, I can't fault you one bit. I just wouldn't justify not liking him by putting it on "your system" as a reason not to share.
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Post by jcarbon2 on Feb 22, 2008 11:04:32 GMT -6
Brophy,
Man, you just made me feel bad. LOL. I know what you are saying and I don't have some super-duper scheme but it is my take on everything and I did do the footwork. I just don't want to have to face the offense and to top it all off it erks me when somebody puts there twist on something I think is already working perfect. Kind of the "If it ain't broke don't fix it". I am sure you have had this happen to you at some point and time. It's all okay when it adds to the scheme but it sure hurts when they change something based on some stupid reason like "The steelers ran it this way this week against the bears" that drives me crazy.
I am not one to suffer fools so its hard for me to explain something to somebody then have them butcher it or change things around that are neither sound or part of the original scheme.
I guess that in the case of this particular coach, I know he is going to butcher it!
John
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Post by coachd5085 on Feb 22, 2008 11:31:04 GMT -6
Brophy, Man, you just made me feel bad. LOL. I know what you are saying and I don't have some super-duper scheme but it is my take on everything and I did do the footwork. I just don't want to have to face the offense and to top it all off it erks me when somebody puts there twist on something I think is already working perfect. Kind of the "If it ain't broke don't fix it". I am sure you have had this happen to you at some point and time. It's all okay when it adds to the scheme but it sure hurts when they change something based on some stupid reason like "The steelers ran it this way this week against the bears" that drives me crazy. I am not one to suffer fools so its hard for me to explain something to somebody then have them butcher it or change things around that are neither sound or part of the original scheme. I guess that in the case of this particular coach, I know he is going to butcher it! John John, what level are you coaching? I am kind of confused, because on one hand you say you don't want to have them change what you think is the most successful way to run the scheme, but on the OTHER HAND you say you don't want to face the scheme either. Bottom line, to me, it seems you feel you have a competitive advantage schematically, and you don't want to lose it. And that is perfectly acceptable. All of the rationalizations just seem like bunk to me though. Just say, I don't want you to run this scheme. Just like when a kid says he doesn't want to play football. Perfectly acceptable. Just don't try to give reasons why, like "concentrate on my grades, work on baseball to get a scholarship, I might get hurt...etc. " Just say, I don't want to play football.
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Post by brophy on Feb 22, 2008 12:20:33 GMT -6
1. I bought all of CW Posts DVDs....therefore, I'm not going to teach anyone the 4-4, because, afterall, they didn't buy those DVDs. 2. But they are not in your conference or at your level of play, correct?? 3. If they are not in your program, doesn't it 'help' you that they are running crappy stuff? Or is it the fact they are going to say they are running "jcarbon's super offense" and running it wrong? Like I said, you don't have to justify anything you do or do not do to 'us' - but it makes a good conversation. Should Knighter not share the DW with anyone (he did, however, spend countless hours learning the system from Wyatt) because they might pervert the system by passing from it?
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Post by jcarbon2 on Feb 22, 2008 14:09:47 GMT -6
I think we are getting a little off track on this subject and its more to do with not shooting yourself in the foot than ego. I think some have equated my post to me acting selfish.
I doubt anybody would mail their cross town rival the team playbook or allow them to sit in spring practice while you install your "O" or "D". Especially when your job is on the line (not my case).
I think that you have to set a limit or boundary when it comes to immediate rivals. I see no problem here on the internet because the chances one of my teams will face off against a coach on these boards are almost "zero". I also see no problem with helping out a coach from outside my area. My problem is limited to helping out potential rivals.
BTW, over the years I have helped just about every coach in my area so maybe I know what the end result will be in my case. When I started there was only one other coach that I felt could out coach me. The guy has a 30 year head start so he is an experienced football coach. He avoided me for the longest time. When I asked him to teach me about his systems or philosophy he politely declined. That forced me to learn and to become better as a coach. Eventually I started to beat him so that made me a better coach. Later I asked him why he never gave in to my hounding him to teach me a few things and his answer was "I have a responsibility to my coaches and players and it would not be right to assist a rival coach".
In my particular case I know I will face off against this guy at some point. So i see no problem helping him out with fundamentals such as how to block or how to play linebacker and passing along drills. I do think schemes are off limits to rival coaches. Let them do their own scouting report or footwork.
John
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Post by tcm57 on Feb 22, 2008 14:18:13 GMT -6
What do you run at a "lower level" (your words) that is totally revolutionary?
If it is a lower high school level, are you telling us that area coaches are coming to you? Wouldn't they be asking the head coach?
If it's youth football, than who cares? Before you go crazy on me, I coached 15+ years at that level before high school and it's ALL about fundamentals and execution at that AND any level.
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Post by kcbazooka on Feb 22, 2008 14:21:23 GMT -6
jcarbon2 -- maybe you should just direct him to this website... he could all the help he needs if he wants to put in the time...
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Post by spos21ram on Feb 22, 2008 14:43:31 GMT -6
I'm kinda curious what offense your taling about. You don't have to share specifics but what is the name of it and what offense does it most resemble?
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Post by jcarbon2 on Feb 22, 2008 14:46:39 GMT -6
What do you run at a "lower level" (your words) that is totally revolutionary? If it is a lower high school level, are you telling us that area coaches are coming to you? Wouldn't they be asking the head coach? If it's youth football, than who cares? Before you go crazy on me, I coached 15+ years at that level before high school and it's ALL about fundamentals and execution at that AND any level. Coach, I run the wishbone. Nothing fancy but I did put the time in to learn from certain HS coaches. So there is my pet peev with details. BTW, I did not say "revolutionary" in any of my posts. At this time I am the DC on an adult team and he is the OC. I am the OC at the 8-10 and 10-12 level. Both teams won their championships last year. We will probably face off at a lower level in the future. I know its about fundamentals. I have been at it for the same amount of years.
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Post by jcarbon2 on Feb 22, 2008 14:55:01 GMT -6
jcarbon2 -- maybe you should just direct him to this website... he could all the help he needs if he wants to put in the time... Coach, I have mentioned these forums many times but for some reason I only see one of these coaches on here and its very once in a long while thing.
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Post by k on Feb 22, 2008 15:18:11 GMT -6
At this time I am the DC on an adult team and he is the OC. So you're refusing to help someone who is on the same staff as you? I'm assuming I got this wrong...
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Post by phantom on Feb 22, 2008 16:02:25 GMT -6
I think we are getting a little off track on this subject and its more to do with not shooting yourself in the foot than ego. I think some have equated my post to me acting selfish. I doubt anybody would mail their cross town rival the team playbook or allow them to sit in spring practice while you install your "O" or "D". Especially when your job is on the line (not my case). I think that you have to set a limit or boundary when it comes to immediate rivals. I see no problem here on the internet because the chances one of my teams will face off against a coach on these boards are almost "zero". I also see no problem with helping out a coach from outside my area. My problem is limited to helping out potential rivals. BTW, over the years I have helped just about every coach in my area so maybe I know what the end result will be in my case. When I started there was only one other coach that I felt could out coach me. The guy has a 30 year head start so he is an experienced football coach. He avoided me for the longest time. When I asked him to teach me about his systems or philosophy he politely declined. That forced me to learn and to become better as a coach. Eventually I started to beat him so that made me a better coach. Later I asked him why he never gave in to my hounding him to teach me a few things and his answer was "I have a responsibility to my coaches and players and it would not be right to assist a rival coach". In my particular case I know I will face off against this guy at some point. So i see no problem helping him out with fundamentals such as how to block or how to play linebacker and passing along drills. I do think schemes are off limits to rival coaches. Let them do their own scouting report or footwork. John John, now that you've explained yourself I pretty much agree with you. To be honest your first post was kind of all over the place and I wasn't sure what you met. I agree with the old coach. Your first responsibility is to your team. I receive PMs from time to time with questions. If it's a simple question about technique or such I'll answer no questions asked. If somebody wants to get more into the system, calls, adjustments and such I'll ask him where he coaches. If there's a chance that we'll be playing I'd politely decline and explain why. It's never happened so I usually give them what they want. Last summer my roommate at camp was a guy who was leaving a HC job in our league for one in another. We won't be playing and I know that he won't be moving on to a school we will play. He asked about a particular facet of our defense. We spent about an hour going through that section of our playbook while he took notes. Would I have done that a year earlier? I doubt that he would have asked.
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Post by kcbazooka on Feb 22, 2008 16:23:45 GMT -6
I'm with K, are you on the same staff for the adult team? He wants to use your wishbone on the adult team?
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Post by jcarbon2 on Feb 22, 2008 18:22:10 GMT -6
At this time I am the DC on an adult team and he is the OC. So you're refusing to help someone who is on the same staff as you? I'm assuming I got this wrong... Yes and no. I am refussing to teach him the offense that I run with my youth teams. I have and I am willing to help him solve fundamental problems to HIS schemes. I know what is going to happen if I explain my offense. He is not going to use it and if he does its going to be his way. He does not have the time to install it.
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Post by jcarbon2 on Feb 22, 2008 18:24:55 GMT -6
Phantom,
I agree with you 100%.
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Post by kcbazooka on Feb 23, 2008 8:31:57 GMT -6
jcarbon -- hmmm if he wants to use the wishbone for the adult team and you're not helping him -- wow... i guess the first thing to do is not be on the same staffs - if you're not willing to help with the adult team's offense you two shouldn't be coaching together.
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Post by spos21ram on Feb 23, 2008 9:18:25 GMT -6
Or simply tell him the deal. "If you're going to run my wishbone successfully you need to spend more time practicing it and I don't think you have the practice time to do so, therefore me helping you is pointless."
I understand what you're saying but I find it odd that you won't help a fellow staff member.
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Post by ttone2210 on Feb 23, 2008 9:51:44 GMT -6
All the talk about not giving an edge to our rivals I thik is real interesting. My school and our biggest rival run similar offenses. We do camps together in the summer. I'm good friends with 2 of their staff members. We frequently bounce ideas off of one another and during the season we try to help each other out.
During the week of our game with them things change a bit. We don't talk about the game, except for BS to joke around. But anyway, I enjoy this week more than any other all year. As an OC, I feel I can give very good input to our DC because I feel I know their offense fairly well. I know the strengths and weaknesses. As do they. Since we both know a lot about each others offenses, it makes for fun preparation.
But when it comes down to it, my offense is different from theirs. Same concepts, but I have my stamp on mine just as he does his just as every coach has their stamp on their own team.
In the game, I added a wrinkle or two to our offense as did their coach, but what the game came down to was who executed better. Our kids executed betteron offense and on defense and thats why we won the game.
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