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Post by superpower on Aug 26, 2008 5:17:09 GMT -6
We had two of our better sophomores come into the coaches office right before practice yesterday and tell us that they were quitting the team. We were all shocked as these are good, tough football players.
I had to be out of town after practice for our league meeting, but when I got home the father of one of the boys called to say that his son was not allowed to quit. Dad told me to do whatever I needed in terms of extra conditioning and any other discipline, but he isn't going to allow his son to quit.
I got off the phone and checked my email. The mother of the other kid had left me a message in which she said that she, the father, and the son would like to meet with me as soon as possible. I am confident that they also are not going to let their son quit.
It is always easy to complain about parents, but I think we should highlight the positive things that parents do. We have outstanding parents here who really do support our program, and I am very fortunate to be coaching here.
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Post by lochness on Aug 26, 2008 5:27:25 GMT -6
That is a good story. I'm glad to read something like this.
Unfortunately, I have seen some very ugly situations involving sick parents, and they have really hurt and slandered some very good coaches that I have worked with, so it's going to be a while before my faith in them as "generally good people" is restored.
BUT, you are right, there are probably more GOOD ones than "bad" ones, and we just never hear about them!
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Post by ajreaper on Aug 26, 2008 10:15:18 GMT -6
In general the vast majority are supportive- it's we remember the 5% who are borderline lunitics. Most parents really do "get it".
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Post by coachcb on Aug 26, 2008 10:41:09 GMT -6
I agree with AJ; 9 out of 10 parents that I deal with are at least neutral; if not very positive.
However, that 10% you deal with can easily make you forget about the other 90%. We all have to keep a good head about us when dealing with those situations.
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Post by liberalhater on Aug 26, 2008 20:31:27 GMT -6
when the parents are involved the way they should be. especially the father? Pfft. So much easier.
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Post by silkyice on Aug 26, 2008 21:08:38 GMT -6
Had a sophomore non-starting linebaker show up with an infection in his eye. He said that it was staph and he wasn't suppossed to sweat. Eye looked pretty rough and I understood.
I said stay away from everybody put you still have to put the whole uniform on including helmet(team rule if hurt) and watch practice.
Anyway I get a message from his mom to call her after practice. I am thinking that she is going to be upset that her son had to wear a helmet when it was 95 degrees and he has an eye infection.
I make the call. It turns out that the grandfather took the lb to the doctor and that he got confused. It wasn't staph. They were treating it like staph. She said he needs to be practicing and he needs to make up the missed running. I loved it!
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