personal meetings with each player

as I read this new blogpost of dr. stankovich (http://blog.drstankovich.com/addressing-myths-about-sport-psychology-mental-toughness-training/) , I was reminded of an idea I had in mind about preparing a one on one personal meeting with each player before the offseason starts to talk about what their goals are and how they see themselves within the team. I hope I can get them to have a clearer picture of what they have to do experience personal success and to contribute to the teams success and for me to get a better idea of how I can help them reach their goals.

dr. stankovich writes: "2. Motivation. Developing a mindset that prompts an athlete to be “the first to practice and the last to leave” is largely dependent on becoming clear with personal values and future goals — from there motivation (intrinsic and extrinsic) often improves dramatically."

My question to you guys is, what are some of the themes you initiate when doing something like this with your players?
do you have specific questions you ask everyone?
what do you do in preparing for these one on one meetings?
and do you keep notes of what the conversation revealed about the player to evaluate (I think about writing down something with the player to make him more responsible for what he said during the conversation)?

thanks in advance.