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Post by fballcoachg on Oct 18, 2012 18:01:55 GMT -6
Talking about some of the issues we are facing this year with a grade young team (7 sophomore starters on offense) and some other things and the AD/Basketball coach chimes in with "and it doesn't help our kids are younger than the surrounding counties kids, have been since I've been here." At first I didn't understand but he said look at all of our kids physicals, most of them are young for their grade, we rarely have 18 year old senior football players (as in 18 during any time during the season). One of our starting sophomores will be 17 at the END of his senior year. AD goes on to explain the theory that our kids are younger than surrounding schools because their parents put them in school as early as possible for what essentially amounts to daycare. I asked another coach I know about this and he said they don't have many young players for their grade. I was wondering if this is an anomaly or if this is very common. Is this something that only happens in lower income areas or is it a non-issue? Not that there is anything we can do about it but was just curious to see what you guys are dealing with.
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Post by morris on Oct 18, 2012 18:09:12 GMT -6
It's a huge issue in middle school sports here. There are certain parts of the state that holdback their kids in ms so they enter their hs year at 18. They match it so the kids don't turn 19 before August 1st
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Post by coachd5085 on Oct 18, 2012 19:37:07 GMT -6
In Louisiana, they actually had to change the rules regarding holding back students, as some schools actually had "8+" programs where entire groups of students spent a year before high school in a "transitional grade" (8+). Curiously enough, those schools have more than 30 state championships combined in the last 20 years or so
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Post by Chris Clement on Oct 18, 2012 20:56:16 GMT -6
This is where I think you guys (as a nation, not personally) have lost your collective minds with the whole "Mississippi redshirt" thing. You're costing him a year of his life for a shot at a little high school athletic glory? I love football as much as anyone, but there's more to life than HS sports.
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Post by coachd5085 on Oct 18, 2012 21:00:03 GMT -6
This is where I think you guys (as a nation, not personally) have lost your collective minds with the whole "Mississippi redshirt" thing. You're costing him a year of his life for a shot at a little high school athletic glory? I love football as much as anyone, but there's more to life than HS sports. actually, I would disagree. I would be there is pretty heavy evidence that kids who are "older" excell in many things. Now personally, if I were a parent, I would do the "hold back" at an early age, probably starting Kindergarten later than other students.
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Post by carookie on Oct 18, 2012 21:01:38 GMT -6
This is where I think you guys (as a nation, not personally) have lost your collective minds with the whole "Mississippi redshirt" thing. You're costing him a year of his life for a shot at a little high school athletic glory? I love football as much as anyone, but there's more to life than HS sports. I agree with you 100%; but there are enough crazy parent who think this is a big advantage to helping their kid get a scholly.
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Post by Chris Clement on Oct 18, 2012 21:19:21 GMT -6
This is where I think you guys (as a nation, not personally) have lost your collective minds with the whole "Mississippi redshirt" thing. You're costing him a year of his life for a shot at a little high school athletic glory? I love football as much as anyone, but there's more to life than HS sports. actually, I would disagree. I would be there is pretty heavy evidence that kids who are "older" excell in many things. Now personally, if I were a parent, I would do the "hold back" at an early age, probably starting Kindergarten later than other students. Yes, because they're a year older than their classmates, which then leads to a compounding effect, getting all the attention and the opportunities. If everyone did it you'd be right back where you started.
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Post by coachd5085 on Oct 18, 2012 21:34:32 GMT -6
actually, I would disagree. I would be there is pretty heavy evidence that kids who are "older" excell in many things. Now personally, if I were a parent, I would do the "hold back" at an early age, probably starting Kindergarten later than other students. Yes, because they're a year older than their classmates, which then leads to a compounding effect, getting all the attention and the opportunities. If everyone did it you'd be right back where you started. Technically, only a year old than classmates with close to the same birthday. Remember though that even just 4 or 5 months are a substantial percentage of a child's life when they are only 60-72 months old I agree, obviously if everyone did it, then comparatively any advantage is lost. But everyone doesn't
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Post by Chris Clement on Oct 18, 2012 21:42:37 GMT -6
So is the proper descriptor then "beggar thy neighbour," or "bugger thy neighbour?" Cuz when some kid starts in front of you because he got held back a year, that's what the proper-aged kid feels like.
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Post by coachd5085 on Oct 18, 2012 21:47:46 GMT -6
So is the proper descriptor then "beggar thy neighbour," or "bugger thy neighbour?" Cuz when some kid starts in front of you because he got held back a year, that's what the proper-aged kid feels like. What is "proper aged" though. Not to go off an an "deep thoughts" educational philosophy trip here but the only reason grade levels are stratified by age is because it is easy and convenient. Not because it is a best practice.
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Post by Chris Clement on Oct 18, 2012 21:50:12 GMT -6
Well, that's a perfectly fine philosophical discussion to have, but pragmatically, they are stratified by age, and some kid is getting the screw because someone else wanted to game the system.
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Post by coachbuck on Oct 18, 2012 21:58:07 GMT -6
I disagree with you guys. My son will graduate at 17 and is. Very good h.s. qb. I wish he was staying home one more year. Not only for the development of his physical stature but to be to home around family. Costing him a year of his life? I disagree he has the rest of his life to work, I feel like we cheated him out of a year of being. Kid!
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Post by coachd5085 on Oct 18, 2012 22:04:19 GMT -6
Well, that's a perfectly fine philosophical discussion to have, but pragmatically, they are stratified by age, and some kid is getting the screw because someone else wanted to game the system. Couldn't you make the EXACT same argument, but say "some kid is getting 'screwed' because their parents got romantic at a more opportune time with regards to the cut off dates for schooling? Aren't some kids "getting screwed" because someone else happens to be an early maturer? Compare with
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Post by Chris Clement on Oct 18, 2012 22:12:28 GMT -6
A bit, yes, but those examples are pretty uncontrollable, whereas holding a kid back is a post facto attempt at gaining an advantage at the direct expense of some other kid.
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Post by coachd5085 on Oct 18, 2012 22:27:09 GMT -6
A bit, yes, but those examples are pretty uncontrollable, whereas holding a kid back is a post facto attempt at gaining an advantage at the direct expense of some other kid. Isn't lifting weights the same? What if the other kid started weight training a year earlier... or playing football a few years earlier...or had a kid brother who played more with him so he developed his motor skills earlier... or a dad who was a coach and worked with the kid...etc. Where does it end? I understand your point, just saying it isn't really done at "the expense" of others that much regarding playing time or positions. Its generally been my experience that anyone who would be held back "just for athletics" have already shown aptitude and are usually the better players already. Now, I do have an issue with the systematic aging of a team like those schools in Louisiana that I mentioned. ESPECIALLY since one of them was a public school....meaning essentially an extra year of educational expenditures born by the public to make sure the football players were bigger/faster/stronger
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Post by morris on Oct 19, 2012 6:18:38 GMT -6
I disagree with you guys. My son will graduate at 17 and is. Very good h.s. qb. I wish he was staying home one more year. Not only for the development of his physical stature but to be to home around family. Costing him a year of his life? I disagree he has the rest of his life to work, I feel like we cheated him out of a year of being. Kid! See in the schools that do the holdbacks here your kid would be a Soph unless he would turn 19 before Aug 1. We see some difference on the HS level but it is in the MS sports that you really see the difference. Thats were you'll see a team with 13 yr old 8th graders playing teams with 15 yr old 8th graders. This is very heated debate in KY. There are parts of the state where it is the norm and a regular practice. There are upsides to it and most enroll their child at the normal starting age (due to day care costs) and then holdback the kid in MS. They have to do it before HS because of the rules. If the kid is going to play basketball in HS they hold them back in MS because they can play HS basketball as a MS kid
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Post by fballcoachg on Oct 19, 2012 6:24:39 GMT -6
I disagree with you guys. My son will graduate at 17 and is. Very good h.s. qb. I wish he was staying home one more year. Not only for the development of his physical stature but to be to home around family. Costing him a year of his life? I disagree he has the rest of his life to work, I feel like we cheated him out of a year of being. Kid! Our son is a March kid so he will graduate at 18 however play at 17 but I think you are making a great point that there is one more year of being a kid there. Our head coach held his kid "back" so that he was one of the older kids in his grade but his reasoning was far different, and I kind of like his approach. His rationale was did he want his son to be the driver his sophomore year or have him be driven by another kid. He said he'd rather have his sons safety in his own hands, not someone elses. As to the original post I made, as a whole, do you guys see your teams actually getting younger or the same or older? We are seeing a younger trend because the parents want to get the kids out of the house or need to get the kids out of the house. Seeing more and more 13 year old freshman at the start of the year or kids that will be 14 the whole year.
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Post by peacock1915 on Oct 19, 2012 10:59:14 GMT -6
I turned 18 in Sept. of my senior year, and at 32 I wish I would have been held back. I would have been able to play my Senior year and had been 19 most of it. Here as long as you are 19 after Aug. 1 you can play. Had two friends who failed the 6th grade and they played their senior season of high school while I was a freshmen in college. My son is 9 right now and I haven't decide if I would do it for him or not, one because is sister is only a grade behind so they would wind up in the same grade if we held him back.
The last school I was at has one Boy's basketball state championship, all 5 starters had been held back.
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Post by PSS on Oct 19, 2012 12:14:38 GMT -6
My son's birthday is August 19th.
My wife is a Kindergarten teacher. She decided that our son was not ready for school. We made the decision based on his academic develop rather than later on. That one year we held him back he went to a private kindergarten.
It has paid divedends academically. He makes straight A's.
Athletically, it will be a great benefit. He will be 18 years old his entire senior year.
IMO and in my experiences, both social (academic) development / athletic development are much improved when a kid is held back.
But it is so much better to do it before they even start school. You are dealing with your son's and daughter's self confidence. Holding them back after they have started school can really have some negative psychological effects.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 19, 2012 12:33:37 GMT -6
It's one thing to hold off on enrolling a kid in kindergarten because you feel he's not ready. It's pure selfishness hold a kid back in the 8th grade just for sports and let taxpayers pay thousands of dollars to give him an unnecessary year. Yet, it does pay big dividends in athletics, especially if you can get it going program-wide.
For us, we have a couple of kids who were held back in the 8th grade for sports by their father, who's on our staff. One is our 2nd best athlete and a stud WR/DB for us. The other is his younger brother who is starting as a freshman. They should be a senior and a sophomore, respectively, but we are very fortunate to be getting both back and to have had that extra year of them both being varsity ready.
There's a school I know of in VA where it's the norm to hold football players back in the 8th grade. The coaches even pressure kids to go to their parents and insist they do it. They have won multiple state titles over the past few decades and are usually a powerhouse year in and out. There's just a huge difference between bringing your team of 17, 18, and almost 19 year olds in to play teams made up of mostly 15, 16, and 17 year olds.
However, it doesn't always work out as planned. It's fairly common for them to hold back mediocre kids who then get to H.S. and quit, or who flunk 8th grade the 2nd time through, or whatever.
I know of another school here who's a powerhouse year in and out and consistently goes undefeated in the regular season. A lot of this is due to illegal recruiting and simply having more money, resources, and students than their competition, but it's also pretty common for some of their best players to have flunked a year in elementary or middle school and be 16 or even turn 17 during their Soph. season. In their registration manual, they even have special sections of academic classes, like English, Math, and Biology, with the note "must be recommended by a coach to enroll" to ensure they don't flunk.
Also, psychological research data leans towards showing that students who are "overaged" relative to their classmates are more likely to be involved in deviant and risky behaviors, particularly boys, though these studies usually don't account for students who were held back by choice vs. those who flunked a year or two because they were having serious problems or were already delinquents.
Personally, I was barely 17 at the start of my senior season and was playing against kids who were almost 19, many of whom had come into HS as 15 year old freshman benching over 225 and went on to get scholarships. My confidence in my own abilities sucked, though I was just barely big and strong enough to compete, and I never even thought about the age difference. Looking back, I believe I could have benefited in many ways from being held back, though the thought of an extra year of school would have been devastating to me at the time.
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Post by fantom on Oct 19, 2012 12:44:34 GMT -6
Malcolm Gladwell's "Outliers" is about how many successful people are successful because of advantages that they gained early in life. That included "older" kids, who were more successfully both athletically and academically. If that's true then why shouldn't a parent start a kid in school later?
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Post by zsilver on Oct 19, 2012 15:31:33 GMT -6
"outliers" a must read for all coaches/teachers as far as I'm concerned. Basically a collection of case studies regarding the variables that have allowed the most successfully people in history to become successful. Basic thesis is that success cannot be predicted by any one variable but from a complex arrangement of factors including environment, relative age, intelligence (multiple types), work ethic (and work opportunity), and god given talent. Not only discusses what it takes to be elite in a field but also gives examples of individuals with extreme talent and brilliance who for one reason or another did not achieve the success that they were "destined" for. Obviously the studies are not totally conclusive, but the data presented is pretty staggering regarding children's ages within a relative group. IE, the kids who start their frosh year at 15 have been 6-8 months more mentally and physically mature than their grade level counter parts. At 15, 16, 17 the difference might not be noticeable, but at 7, those 8 months are more than 10% of the kids' lives. That initial advantage and subsequent performance is then parlayed into advanced youth league teams with better coaching/competition for the next 8 years. That 8+ years of advanced level competition is what the author theorizes as the real advantage that a 15 year old incoming freshman has over his 14 year old peers. Interesting. Here in the east bay, we only get 3 or 4 incoming freshman every year who have even played before so I guess it's not that big of a deal for us. Sounds like a circus back east. Good luck men.
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Post by coachd5085 on Oct 19, 2012 17:49:01 GMT -6
Malcolm Gladwell's "Outliers" is about how many successful people are successful because of advantages that they gained early in life. That included "older" kids, who were more successfully both athletically and academically. If that's true then why shouldn't a parent start a kid in school later? It would be an interesting (albeit near impossible) experiment to see what would happen if EVERYONE started a year later... would the benefits/advantages extend to all, OR would they disappear because it was no longer a comparative issue.
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Post by Chris Clement on Oct 19, 2012 18:56:11 GMT -6
I must admit that I am a little biased, because when Ontario went from Grade 13 to Grade 12 in HS a lot of kids started taking a fifth year of HS to take a "victory lap" or "Grade 12+" or a sarcastically termed "Grade 13." Having the most overagers is basically how you win a championship around here. If you're a mediocre athlete but a good student you'll probably never get a chance.
If you're on a team with a bunch of these kids, I guarantee that on your roster is a junior, one who is a decent but not spectacular athlete, works hard, causes no trouble, and knows that if he had a fair shake against kids his own age, could compete for some solid playing time and maybe a starting spot, but now he'll never see the field.
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Post by carookie on Oct 19, 2012 19:07:05 GMT -6
But maybe we are putting the cart before the horse here....most parents who would hold their kids back for football reasons are probably very much into football; and are putting more effort into their kids success athletically to begin with. You know they are probably having them lift at an early age, getting them extra training in the offseason, making football a priority.
So maybe to isolate the variable in this study here we need to take a few band kids, hold them back a year, and then see how good they are on the football field.
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Post by fantom on Oct 19, 2012 21:54:11 GMT -6
But maybe we are putting the cart before the horse here....most parents who would hold their kids back for football reasons are probably very much into football; and are putting more effort into their kids success athletically to begin with. You know they are probably having them lift at an early age, getting them extra training in the offseason, making football a priority. So maybe to isolate the variable in this study here we need to take a few band kids, hold them back a year, and then see how good they are on the football field. They'll be REAL good band kids.
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Post by mariner42 on Oct 20, 2012 5:18:21 GMT -6
Malcolm Gladwell's "Outliers" is about how many successful people are successful because of advantages that they gained early in life. That included "older" kids, who were more successfully both athletically and academically. If that's true then why shouldn't a parent start a kid in school later? It would be an interesting (albeit near impossible) experiment to see what would happen if EVERYONE started a year later... would the benefits/advantages extend to all, OR would they disappear because it was no longer a comparative issue. If I remember correctly, at least part of that success was attributed to the fact that the kids who started later were more emotionally mature and therefore capable of handling school as an institution. I'm a long, long way off from having kids and God willing I'll be in a situation where my first one is on purpose, but I would think long and hard about starting them later because of the benefits (academic, social, athletic) that come from doing so. As far as football is concerned, we've all had kids who turned themselves around between their Jr and Sr years. Now imagine that those kids were doing that between their Soph and Jr years, meaning you get that kid for another two years! In CA, I haven't seen this situation very often. I could imagine there's places in the central valley where stuff like this goes down because I swear that part of CA seems to be disturbingly similar to Friday Night Lights at times, but still a rare situation as far as I'm aware.
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Post by k on Oct 20, 2012 23:11:34 GMT -6
Here you can't turn 19 before the first game to play... It was a recent rule change.
I was a 16 year old senior and really wish I had been a 18 or at least a 17 year old senior.
Also there was a team famous for having 19+ year old seniors. Like 70%+ of their senior class year after year. We played them my senior year. Wasn't fun... Granted they were probably one of the best public high school teams in the history of high school football.
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Post by coachbdud on Oct 21, 2012 16:50:21 GMT -6
Yes it is common in the "lower income" communities for their kids to be younger during HS... simply because their parents enroll them as young as possible
free daycare
Most of our kids are 17 during football, occasionally we have an 18 year old but that's usually just if they were held back once or twice
my best friend played his entire senior season at 16... turned 17 AFTER the season
he was a LT that went on to start the following 2 years at a JC, and then got offered a scholarship to a D-2 school after that
His second year at a JC really should have been his senior year in HS
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