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Post by coachjuice on Jul 29, 2012 12:20:18 GMT -6
I just had a conversation with someone involved in the youth football program that serves all three high schools in our city. The guy tells me that he understands why I run the program the way I do but he doesn't agree with it. It is a very different situation because we have 3 high schools all in the city limits competing for the same kids.
We are very disciplined, very team orientated. Practice is mandatory (miss practice make up that practice the next day after wards) we script every practice. We swear we do push ups, we don't wear hats in the building. Every player wears the same thing, Black shorts Grey Shirt, black socks when we lift or when we go uppers. We say Yes Coach No Coach, we check there grades and we do not tolerate them going to detention or getting ISS. Our uniform looks the same the coaches all dress a like etc...We have created Standards that we ask the players and coaches to live up to .
Our school is ran completely opposite, open campus lots of freedom. Kids basically can do whatever they want within reason. The football program isn't the military and we have fun but we are not only preparing the boys for Friday night but for life after high school as well. Isn't this our jobs?
Am I wrong with this philosophy? From what I understand the other programs are a bit looser, one of our sister schools in the city they call the HC by his first name. We have a team in our area from a much better economic situation then we have hasn't lost a game in 2 years and they are real loose like.
I am afraid that we are losing kids because they are afraid to work and have discipline or meet the standards that have been created for them. Any thoughts?
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Post by nstanley on Jul 29, 2012 12:55:32 GMT -6
I always remember hearing Dan Hawkins when he was at Boise St speak about having a philosophy. He said that you need a philosophy and go to the death defending it. He cited his famous quote when asked why his kick off returners never took a knee in the endzone:
"Gandhi didn't take a knee, Martin Luther King didn't take a knee, Thomas Edison didn't take a knee, and I sure as hell am not going to take a knee." -- Dan Hawkins
Of course, one could ask how'd that work out for those guys? To me you need to think about what you do and why you do it. If it's important to you, stick with it. If it's just an arbitrary decision, or one that you think is adversely affecting the team, you need to weigh the cost and benefit of it.
I am not going to compromise my integrity to make someone else happy, or to win games. I will however give up things that I like, prefer, etc in order to win games.
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Post by fantom on Jul 29, 2012 13:15:38 GMT -6
"Gandhi didn't take a knee, Martin Luther King didn't take a knee, Thomas Edison didn't take a knee, and I sure as hell am not going to take a knee." -- Dan Hawkins Of course, one could ask how'd that work out for those guys? Gandhi's and King's causes won in the end and Edison became a millionaire.
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Post by Coach.A on Jul 29, 2012 13:56:32 GMT -6
we are not only preparing the boys for Friday night but for life after high school as well. Isn't this our jobs? In your opinion, is this extreme discipline environment you created a reflection of "what life is like after high school"? I agree with much of what you do, however I'm a little bit more relaxed on many of the issues. A great piece of advice I got when I started coaching was: The more rules you have, the more you have to enforce.If you chose to have all these rules, you better be prepared to enforce them consistently. In my opinion, too many rules can end up being counterproductive.
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Post by blb on Jul 29, 2012 14:36:54 GMT -6
How do you define "Discipline"?
No question the most disciplined teams are more successful because they do what's right and don't beat themselves.
The best coaches get kids to it because they want to for those reasons.
They don't fall apart from within and can deal effectively with adversity.
So you have to explain to them why you do what you do and how it helps them individually and as a team.
Again, best discipline is getting them to want to do it, not having to make them do it, because they understand why and "buy in."
Teach Self-discipline and commitment.
And be positive while demanding.
Or it doesn't work.
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Post by coachjuice on Jul 29, 2012 14:37:15 GMT -6
Steelhawk,
We have a few standards that need to be met. I know its semantics but I am not sure we have any rules. Be at practice work your a$$ off, be in school work your a$$ off. The students are not supposed to wear hats in school. We enforce the rule, we have 6 coaches and 5 of them are in the building so we are all giving it to them all day. The swearing thing is really not a big issue. There is a quota on swear words and I will use the entire quota the first day practice. We will not let the kids take the easy way out. I am not going to appease at the cost of many. I am a prick about the uniform though.
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Post by levy7853 on Jul 29, 2012 15:00:13 GMT -6
Discipline is an important skill to learn. Discipline should be taught like any other skill or behavior. This can be done in many ways and really depends on the situation. Some programs may benefit from a drill sergeant as HC and others might respond better to a coach is more relaxed.
I do not feel that discipline is exclusive to either approach.
As others have stated, the best course of action would be to reflect on your philosophy and courses of action. Be honest with your self-assessment and try to analyze what you are doing and why. Is it a fundamental principle you hold or just something you prefer? Is it hurting your program? If so, why? Try to pull together as much data as you can. This will allow you to make decisions based on the data rather than less empirical things such as emotion or preference.
If its fundamental issue, such as school grades or attending practice, you should definitely hold to your philosophy. If its every kid wearing the same thing in the weight room, maybe you could be more lenient here.
Or maybe not. There is certainly merit to this type of team building. And every situation is different.
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Post by fatboy04 on Jul 29, 2012 17:55:22 GMT -6
Coach Juice----starting my 27th year of coaching hs football, my 16th as a head coach.Have won some, lost some. While I don't believe I have all the answers, I see NOTHING wrong with your methods, philosophy. Keep doing what you're doing and be true to yourself. Good luck Coach.
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Post by carookie on Jul 29, 2012 18:09:52 GMT -6
Coach Juice- There is nothing you listed that I consider out of the ordinary, harsh, or even old school. Maybe it is because, as you wrote, your school is completely open; that relative to the free for all at your school you are seen as being some sort of tyrrant.
I think things of this nature have to be taken relative to the school and the community though. Ive coached at schools in communities where a lot of the kids are raised in an atmosphere where you are expected to behave in a manner that jibes with your rules. Had a colleague take a HC job at a school in a different community and brought with him the same rules you listed above; had 3 parents come up to him within the first month (2 during practice) and call him out in front of the kids....one told him "My son ain't your slave, and you ain't his master."
That being written, you shouldn't change what you are doing if you know it is what is right.
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Post by Chris Clement on Jul 29, 2012 20:14:18 GMT -6
Some of those things I would agree on, but socks and tshirts are not something I can be brought to give a crap about. I don't like to get uptight about that stuff because I feel like you only get so much capital to be anal, I would rather expend it elsewhere.
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Post by John Knight on Jul 29, 2012 20:37:33 GMT -6
"Gandhi didn't take a knee, Martin Luther King didn't take a knee, Thomas Edison didn't take a knee, and I sure as hell am not going to take a knee." -- Dan Hawkins
None of those guys ever played football, did they? That is a mindless coaching quote in my opinion.
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Post by Chris Clement on Jul 29, 2012 21:15:41 GMT -6
It's amusing and clever. I'm sure it's not the real reason he doesn't take a knee.
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Post by mariner42 on Jul 30, 2012 1:17:26 GMT -6
"Gandhi didn't take a knee, Martin Luther King didn't take a knee, Thomas Edison didn't take a knee, and I sure as hell am not going to take a knee." -- Dan Hawkins
None of those guys ever played football, did they? That is a mindless coaching quote in my opinion. Quotes like that are awesome when you're at Boise and the situation is starting to snowball into bigger and better things. Less so when you're at CU and fired before your son can play on senior night. I have a lot of respect for Coach Hawkins because he was a mentor to one of my mentors (Mark Speckman), I'm just saying quotes work a couple of different ways. Back to the OT, your program sounds very regimented and thorough and I hope that it all leads back to success. If you're doing all that shizz and losing, I would start looking at some of it and begin questioning where I could be expending my mental energy instead.
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Post by blb on Jul 30, 2012 4:43:08 GMT -6
juice, Woody Hayes said "Football is the last bastion of discipline in America."
Like you I once coached in a school where there was little to no discipline and we ran football program in a structured, organized way.
Made it tough on us.
But we did not compromise or lower our expectations because we knew WE were doing it right.
Eventually though I got stagnant and had to move on.
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Post by op4shadow on Jul 30, 2012 6:57:55 GMT -6
you aren't doing anything wrong. this is rediculous in my opinion. i love it when parents, administration, or even community members look at us and say we are too demanding on kids (for things like that anyway). we have a no hat in the building policy as well. we had a parent try to go to the administration insisting that they make us change that particular policy. i served in the US Army, and it was the little things (hats off in building, being forced to make the bed every day, etc) that makes a soldier disciplined. same thing here...if a kid can't be disciplined enough to take a hat off, how is he ever going to be disciplined enough to show up for school/work on time? or follow the traffic laws? or not treat his wife like garbage? i'm not saying hats off is a necessity or even what should be expected. we all have our own ways of teaching our kids to be disciplined. however, whatever your method is, don't back down from it if you believe in it.
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Post by irishdog on Jul 30, 2012 13:26:37 GMT -6
Been a HS HC for over 18 years. Would always meet with my kids Day One of two-a-days to talk about "expectations", and "goals"... mine, AND theirs. Would explain to them how to get all of those expectations to work together (chemistry, synergy... whatever you call it), and to achieve those goals. Once WE determined what the expectations and goals would be TOGETHER we pulled together to make sure those expectations would be met, and goals achieved. Those who bought in stayed in. Those who didn't fell out right away. More stayed than left... and each year more joined than didn't. Discipline is a RESULT of a skilled teacher.
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Post by fantom on Jul 30, 2012 13:46:21 GMT -6
I just had a conversation with someone involved in the youth football program that serves all three high schools in our city. The guy tells me that he understands why I run the program the way I do but he doesn't agree with it. It is a very different situation because we have 3 high schools all in the city limits competing for the same kids. We are very disciplined, very team orientated. Practice is mandatory (miss practice make up that practice the next day after wards) we script every practice. We swear we do push ups, we don't wear hats in the building. Every player wears the same thing, Black shorts Grey Shirt, black socks when we lift or when we go uppers. We say Yes Coach No Coach, we check there grades and we do not tolerate them going to detention or getting ISS. Our uniform looks the same the coaches all dress a like etc...We have created Standards that we ask the players and coaches to live up to . Our school is ran completely opposite, open campus lots of freedom. Kids basically can do whatever they want within reason. The football program isn't the military and we have fun but we are not only preparing the boys for Friday night but for life after high school as well. Isn't this our jobs? Am I wrong with this philosophy? From what I understand the other programs are a bit looser, one of our sister schools in the city they call the HC by his first name. We have a team in our area from a much better economic situation then we have hasn't lost a game in 2 years and they are real loose like. I am afraid that we are losing kids because they are afraid to work and have discipline or meet the standards that have been created for them. Any thoughts? If you lose kids for those reasons are you really going to miss them?
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Post by kyle on Jul 30, 2012 14:25:15 GMT -6
I just had a conversation with someone involved in the youth football program that serves all three high schools in our city. The guy tells me that he understands why I run the program the way I do but he doesn't agree with it. It is a very different situation because we have 3 high schools all in the city limits competing for the same kids. We are very disciplined, very team orientated. Practice is mandatory (miss practice make up that practice the next day after wards) we script every practice. We swear we do push ups, we don't wear hats in the building. Every player wears the same thing, Black shorts Grey Shirt, black socks when we lift or when we go uppers. We say Yes Coach No Coach, we check there grades and we do not tolerate them going to detention or getting ISS. Our uniform looks the same the coaches all dress a like etc...We have created Standards that we ask the players and coaches to live up to . Our school is ran completely opposite, open campus lots of freedom. Kids basically can do whatever they want within reason. The football program isn't the military and we have fun but we are not only preparing the boys for Friday night but for life after high school as well. Isn't this our jobs? Am I wrong with this philosophy? From what I understand the other programs are a bit looser, one of our sister schools in the city they call the HC by his first name. We have a team in our area from a much better economic situation then we have hasn't lost a game in 2 years and they are real loose like. I am afraid that we are losing kids because they are afraid to work and have discipline or meet the standards that have been created for them. Any thoughts? Things are different for me, since I'm a true youth coach now, but I coached at Middle School for three years. We were somewhat strict for two of those years, and the third year I was there under a different headcoach. He was loose. In terms of winning football games, I think it comes down to your ability to focus them. Meaning that you tell them on a daily basis that you will win because you do X, Y, and Z. I didn't find the strictness to play a big role in our success on the field. So in that respect, I don't think it matters. With regard to making them better people... I lean more towards strictness. Real life definitely is a free-for-all where you must discipline yourself, but I tend to find that people who are raised with good habits are going to continue those good habits. I have a Chinese friend, and when I went over his house as a kid in High School he would litterally be told to study while I was there, and he did. He's now going to be a doctor, and he can play the piano pretty damn well too. Those habits followed him through college. Likewise, I was always taught to never quit, and I don't. Upbringing means a lot. Another issue is respect. Just because you've set rules and are strict with following them, that doesn't mean you can't have respect for your players.
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Post by coachjuice on Jul 30, 2012 20:10:56 GMT -6
Great responses guys...I've read your posts and spoke with some other coaches whose opinion I value. I only know one way. I do show my players respect and I do care about each and everyone of them. We are trying to teach them to care about themselves too. I am not sure what the dynamics of your programs or schools are. I only know where I have been and where I am now. We are doing the right thing. We run a quality program and I will continue to run it and adjust with it each year. I do like the post about getting the kids involved in making the decisions on team rules etc... so we did it tonight. 12 seniors made the decisions and they came up with same "rules" that were in place last year and for the past 4 years that I have been HC of the program. I asked the kids why the same rules? They responded "that is the way its done here!"
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Post by tobbe on Jul 31, 2012 1:29:02 GMT -6
I think discipline and high standards are good but you have to have a reason that the kids can buy in to..
Why cant the kids wear hats? And "tradition" is not a good answer for a kid...
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Post by fantom on Jul 31, 2012 1:35:44 GMT -6
I think discipline and high standards are good but you have to have a reason that the kids can buy in to.. Why cant the kids wear hats? And "tradition" is not a good answer for a kid... There's a school rule against it. That's all you need.
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Post by jlenwood on Jul 31, 2012 3:31:38 GMT -6
I read your post several times, and I don't get the idea you are running a "seal team" boot camp or anything, just standards have to be met to be a part of the team. I may be wrong but that is what I take from it. I don't see anything you are doing that is truly much different than anyone else who runs a good, solid program.
The only thing that I see that kind of bugs me is the statement about "preparing the boys for Friday night but for life after high school as well." I truly think that what we do in our programs is a building block for the kids, but not the only one. I think that to many times teachers/coaches fall into the thought of "I am going to make a difference in this kids life and all will be well". This is not a anti teacher rant, but the reality is, as coaches we can be instrumental in steering a kid in the right direction with discipline, standards etc. But in the end, the culture and environment that they come from will more times than not dictate their future success. We have I am sure, all had experience when we work with a young man for years, see them making great strides to becoming a fine young adult, and then the influences from home or environment turn everything around we have worked on and the kid still ends up being a turd.
I own a construction/service business. I run it very loose as far as rules. Clean shaven, dressed appropriately, no smoking in front of customers. We don't have a set starting time or quiting time. The only thing that I demand is that when we get to the job, we work and get it done. No di**ing around, just work your butt off and get after it. Employees love working for me because of this structure.
To me, that is what we need to do as coaches. The rules we set need to be those that will keep a kid in line with what the school rules are, but treat them as adults (as much as possible) and let them see how what they do is responsible for their success. Hard work pays off, and it sounds like that is what your are doing. Let them know when we are scheduled for weight room, be there and ready to work (in whatever you want to work out in-not big on uniform apparel for the weight room). Practice, be there and ready to work. Game time, you get the idea. If a kid fails to live up to TEAM expectations and can't get in line with this...see ya.
Keep up the good work. Sounds like you are doing a great job for the kids in your program.
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Post by coachjuice on Jul 31, 2012 4:36:59 GMT -6
The only thing that I see that kind of bugs me is the statement about "preparing the boys for Friday night but for life after high school as well." I truly think that what we do in our programs is a building block for the kids, but not the only one. I think that to many times teachers/coaches fall into the thought of "I am going to make a difference in this kids life and all will be well".
People say to me all the time that you can't fix 15-16-17 years of garbage in 1 football season. I understand that 100%.
I am not from this area but we are an inner city football program, we have three schools that vie for all the student/athletes attention. We were once a thriving city that is basically dead because our only major industry left. Our major industry now, Department of Social Services. I have 75 kids on my team out of those 75 kids 50 percent or more come from single mother households. The only men that these kids have in there life are there coaches and the police. We have had players go to Ivy league schools who bought in and had some real self motivation, and kids who had some with real self motivation who are now in jail. Everyone of us has kids like this in there program. We are not trying to be saviors. we yell, we swear we have fun with the kids, jokes etc.. Its isn't all business . BUT we are trying to be consistent. I think people get nit picky about, why can't they wear hats? Why do they have to all wear the same stuff in the weight room during the season? Not because we are trying to be we are trying to be harda$$es but because we want them to be responsible to themselves and each other. The same premise carries over to the field. When have a group of players that are responsible and care about themselves and others on our program we usually have some success on the field. When we don't we won't.
We are not doing anything different then probably 99% of you.
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Post by blb on Jul 31, 2012 5:07:39 GMT -6
12 seniors made the decisions and they came up with same "rules" that were in place last year and for the past 4 years that I have been HC of the program. I asked the kids why the same rules? They responded "that is the way its done here!" That says you are getting through to them and having a positive effect.
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Post by Chris Clement on Jul 31, 2012 16:06:10 GMT -6
You make construction workers shave?
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Post by jlenwood on Jul 31, 2012 19:31:21 GMT -6
You make construction workers shave? I try!!
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