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19delta
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One and done... Mar 24, 2010 21:34:00 GMT -6

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Post by 19delta on Mar 24, 2010 21:34:00 GMT -6

Got fired earlier this week from my first head coaching job after only 1 year. Official reason was "gross insubordination". The district tried to screw 5 of my assistant coaches out of a portion of their stipends and I guess that I stepped on too many of the wrong toes down in the central office trying to get my guys paid.

Not really surprised...this was a long time coming. Basically, the people in the Human Resources department were upset that I had went over their heads so they have had a vendetta against me pretty much since January.

So...just kind of enjoying the time off...nice to be home at 4:30 every day...going to be able to spend a ton of time with my family this summer...my oldest son starts 6th grade football this summer...all stuff I'm looking forward to.

I think I'm likely done coaching high school ball. This was my 4th coaching stop in as many years...at this point, it is probably pretty safe to say that I am just a disagreeable pr1ck who can't get along with anyone.

Anyway...best of luck to the rest of you guys and have a great summer.

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kylem56
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One and done... Mar 24, 2010 21:46:38 GMT -6

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Post by kylem56 on Mar 24, 2010 21:46:38 GMT -6

coach hang in there. the man upstairs has a reason for everything. Sometimes you don't see that reason for awhile but there is.

“We are on the field and in the locker room to teach our players how to win. Not just on the gridiron, but in any profession they choose. We want to impart habits that will lead them to excellence throughout their lives. Most of all, we want to teach them the value of loyalty, integrity, and teamwork. Once you know how to work with people, you can accomplish anything”- Lou Holtz

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superpower
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One and done... Mar 25, 2010 4:56:53 GMT -6

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Post by superpower on Mar 25, 2010 4:56:53 GMT -6

Coach, I am sorry to hear about your dismissal. It sure seemed that you had your program heading in the right direction. However, I respect you for standing up for your assistant coaches and for the positive spin you are putting on this situation.

WHAT IT TAKES TO WIN IS SIMPLE, NOT EASY.

jpdaley25
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One and done... Mar 25, 2010 5:23:20 GMT -6

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Post by jpdaley25 on Mar 25, 2010 5:23:20 GMT -6

The days of spending most of your career in one place are done, I'm afraid. I'm on my 6th school. I was basically fired at my second stop, and I've just about played out my string where I'm at now. If you are uncomprimising when it comes to doing things the right way, you make enemies. People chip away at the armor of your reputation until no one knows what to think about you and you are rendered ineffective. Perception means everything and truth means nothing. Knowing those things gives you power.

I've read a lot of your posts, 19Delta, and I think you've got a great football mind. A door just closed and another one is about to open. Keep your eyes open for it, and I wish you all the best.

wingtol
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One and done... Mar 25, 2010 9:07:31 GMT -6

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Post by wingtol on Mar 25, 2010 9:07:31 GMT -6

Gotta give you props for taking the bullet for your asst. coaches and also for being man enough to admit one of your faults. I get so tired of reading....I am at my 10th school in 10 years and don't know why I can't get more responsibility/a varsity position/a coordinators/the other coaches don't listen to me/blahh blahh blahh....

khalfie Senior Member Posts: 1,467	One and done... Mar 25, 2010 21:51:57 GMT -6 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by khalfie on Mar 25, 2010 21:51:57 GMT -6 Yeah... You are a prick!

coachwoody
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One and done... Mar 28, 2010 20:55:04 GMT -6

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Post by coachwoody on Mar 28, 2010 20:55:04 GMT -6

I feel your pain. Same situation as you but it was not standing up for my assistants it was because of mine. After the 6th game of the season my asst. told my QB's parents there are going to be changes come Monday but don't worry your son will be taken care of.
Ive been off since Oct. and enjoyed the time with my family. More than likely going to open my own business so I can do whatever I want and I am the boss. I guess that makes 2 of us pricks out there.

I ain't never been nothing but a Winner!

slimbo7722 Sophomore Member Some days yoour the dog...some days you are the hydrant. Posts: 139	One and done... Mar 28, 2010 21:36:43 GMT -6 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by slimbo7722 on Mar 28, 2010 21:36:43 GMT -6 Loyalty is hard to come by...
	"Serious sport has nothing to do with fair play. It is bound up with hatred, jealousy, boastfulness, disreguard for the rules and sadistic pleasure in witnessing violence. In other words; it is war minus the shooting." - George Orwell

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