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Post by tothehouse on Sept 14, 2009 10:50:36 GMT -6
I am finding myself extremely busy this season.
I'm really enjoying coaching and I don't think I could give it up. But this weekend I missed two events with my kids because I was breaking down film and game planning. I'm REALLY good at finding quality time with my kids on the weekend.
I'm 37 and wondering how much longer I want to keep coaching. I'm in my 18th year of coaching as well. My goal is to coach till my kids go through HS. My youngest is 7. That means 12 more years.
At our school we grind (in a good way). I'm the DC and the VC at our place. I spent almost two hours getting the cameras ready for our game Friday...and missed pregame warm up because of it. I was exhausted this weekend because of it. And we won our game big.
This is almost a blog post, but I'm wondering how many guys have coached as long as I have and are feeling a crunch? Our football program is outstanding. I have no complaints. I'm in a great spot, niche, etc. But it's taxing.
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Post by phantom on Sept 14, 2009 11:13:13 GMT -6
Two hours setting up cameras is ridiculous. As a coordinator you don't have time for that crap. Find a young guy to do that. Your time is too valuable.
Your family time is also too valuable. You missed family stuff, why? To break down the film as a staff? Don't do it. You can do a good job without sacrificing family. It means working at home when the kids are doing something else, including sleeping. You'll miss a lot of TV games and get to bed late but it can be done. I know because I've done it.
You'll still miss a Little League game or two. That's not a bad thing. I think it's good for the kids to realize that they're playing for themselves, not for you.
If your boss insists on grinding together as a staff you may not have a choice. You might have to let him know that you won't be able to come back. If he lets you work at home you also don't have a choice- you'd better perform.
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Post by tothehouse on Sept 14, 2009 11:27:40 GMT -6
Phantom...good stuff.
The spot I'm in..I'm really in control of everything.
I teach the media class at my school. I have 8 student filmers. My goal this year is to have them set up everything and be 100% in control of the filming situation. That is a lot to ask of these kids...but I expect them to follow through. That being said. My #1 end zone camera kid wasn't at school Friday and subsequently not at the game (he communicated beautifully with me...so I wasn't left in a bind). My #1 wide shot kid.....had to work, but told me he'd be at the game. He is also my #1 set up kid. He sets up everything. So all of my main students were out. I have a sideline filmer that only films away games (cuz he wants to yuck it up with this friends at home games) that is also a set up kid. He set up the end zone shot. That saved me. I am training 4 new sophomore filmers that have limited set up capabilities. I also threw a sophomore girl into the fire Friday and had her film the end zone shot (first game ever...some practice with last weeks JV game). My main pressbox filmer showed up 5 minutes before kickoff......and all things went well. I have the students trained to start loading the games into my computer while I talk with players/coaches. Pretty sweet set up. Kids are learning a lot.
That made Friday extra crazy.
As for football. Again, I can do pretty much what I want? Self scout?...sure. Really get to know our opponent.....even better. I pick the time I want to do this. The only team commitment on the weekend is a Sunday meeting.
As time has gone on I am filling my hours/minutes with a lot more stuff. My school load has also increased tremendously and I think that is where a lot of the stress is coming from. Friday night...on the field....was really peaceful. That is probably the reason I couldn't give this up. It's a great stress reliever. It's funny...I don't get nervous for games....at all. That is because my week is so busy that I use football games to relax.
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Post by coach31 on Sept 14, 2009 11:48:24 GMT -6
Coach, I know the feeling. I am the grunt here. Year 8 and still 3rd newest. QBs and video/equipment/uniforms/practice plan/conditioning/balls/stretch/scout teams/college contact... You get the idea. We have 4 guys who are 15+ years here and just want to coach the game (and practice for it). That means alot of the other stuff falls on me. I have tried to delagate some stuff and Friday it bit me in the behind. Camera I trusted the manager could put in the equipment van got to the stadium is several pieces. Ball boy (frosh coaches son) was overwelmed in a rainstorm, led to two crucial fumbles and a 14-7 loss. I have never been this down after a loss. I feel like it is my fault we lost. Those details matter and I didn't get it done. So much for delagating. Now back to doing EVERYTHING myself. I need to find competent people I can trust. Until then, if you want it done right do it yourself.
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Post by tothehouse on Sept 14, 2009 12:08:05 GMT -6
Coach - That is a funny thing. I'm 37...been here 11 seasons....and I'm still the youngest coach. This worries me about the programs future.
I feel like I do 3 more time the work than any other coach on the staff (besides the HC). I am not complaining....because guys give what they can give. I choose to do all the stuff that I do. Nobody would take on the job that I do.
After games....I put all three angles into our server at school. I make the trade DVD (unless we trade online). I left the school Saturday morning at 2am. I enjoy my routine.
I guess my rant is more about burning myself out. I felt way burned this weekend. I don't want to be negative about this, because it's fun.
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Post by coach31 on Sept 14, 2009 17:32:08 GMT -6
I feel the same way about burnout. I have had a huge problem with agressive parents. I feel like that is what is going to get me out of coaching. I am getting tired of hearing how stupid and mean I am from all angles. It has been an awful week and I am wondering why I go through all of this. Why not show up at 7 leave and 3, give everyone an A and be left alone
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Post by IronmanFootball on Sept 14, 2009 18:37:26 GMT -6
I'm a 2nd year full-time teacher, sixth year coach. I got a lecture and meeting with my principal for 2 hrs today about me "sucking" at teaching when I came in after 4 weeks at another school, this is my 3rd position this year already, and I'm using my planning time to get grades in for interim reports since the short-term couldn't do grades. I had real lessons with real assignments and real objectives, he just has a bad feeling about me because I coach football at a high school that's an hour away and in his mind I'm more dedicated to football than teaching because I don't stay after school. I wonder why I do it but then I remember, it's really damn hard to coach if I don't teach, and I can't just "let it go" on teaching because, like most of us on here, we're quality people who care about the kids... if only our principals could notice that!
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Post by coachorr on Sept 14, 2009 19:28:39 GMT -6
Wow JDcane, that is nuts. Too bad people make assumptions.
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Post by jhanawa on Sept 14, 2009 21:03:13 GMT -6
Brad, you've got it good, nice location, solid program, END ZONE CAMERA!!! Wide/tight Sideline angles.....LOL.....I know what your saying on time though, it can be a grind, but pursuing excellence takes time....go to little league tired and cut film at night.
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Post by tothehouse on Sept 14, 2009 21:13:20 GMT -6
I really think, JH, that it comes down to my load as a teacher this year. I think that I'm good at managing stuff, but this year my mojo is off a bit.
JH...I will not complain about anything football on this board. I have learned that what we have here football wise is a really good thing....compared to a lot of what I read here.
In some ways I need to shut my pie hole and just keep pressing. Today was a solid practice. Kinda like hitting a great golf shot when you don't play much.....you'll come back. Most days are good when your attitude is good. I went in with a good attitude and had a great day on the turf.
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Post by rcole on Sept 14, 2009 21:33:31 GMT -6
My strategy to maximize family time in season: I start working on teaching a coaching stuff when my kids go to bed...that means I never hit the bed before midnight, usually later, sometimes 1:00 am and pop right back up at 5:30 am to do it all again...but at least I"m not missing my kids. I give my family all day Saturday although I sneak in grading film and watching our opponents film, usually when they are sleeping. Sunday we meet all day after church. What kills me is paint nights on home game weeks and long road trips for JV games. Honestly I look forward to playing varsity on the road, no paint and home for JV's gives me more family time. It wears you out but it goes quick once the games start, we are already on game week 4.
Honestly most people I know drag in at 7 pm every night and don't get the kind of time off I get. I think it balances out over the course of the year. Think about all of the things you DO get to do with your family because you ARE a teacher/coach. We have 10 to 15 very intense weeks, but the rest of the year we have more family time than "normal" people do. And I agree with what phantom said about not watching a lot of TV games. Coaching is my job/calling and hobby, my coaches are my friends, when I am not at work I am at home and focused...no TV games with friends, no golfing, no bars (as much as I might like to do those things), that just does not fit. I live football all week, I can skip some TV games for my family.
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Post by coachcastleman on Sept 14, 2009 21:44:06 GMT -6
Did I read that correctly? You have 8 student filmers? I had to beg a student to film from the box for a grand total of 1 filmer.
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Post by tothehouse on Sept 14, 2009 22:18:29 GMT -6
rcole - I think we are the same human being. That is darn near exactly what I do.
castleman - Yes...my main filmer decided to start the "Sport Filmers" club. Yes...SPORT FILMERS. I have 10 members in the club. They want to film sports on our campus. Not just football, but everything. There are stipulations like...nobody uses my classroom equipment. The sports team has to provide all the equipment. I'm just providing the filmer.
For football...I sell the students on the awesomeness that is helping with football. It helps that we have 3-5000 people at our home games and that we win games. The students are jacked to help me.
Just today...I have a sophomore girl who filmed with the endzone camera for the first time ever last Friday. She comes into class today....no kidding...says, "COACH. CAN I WATCH THE FILM TO SEE HOW I DID?" I have multiple newbies who have asked to watch the film to see how they did. I have a senior kid (my main dude) who has filmed all 4 years. He quit the band last year and comes to me...."I quit the band....so all I can do now is film football". I hugged him....not really...but I could have. I have a junior kid who is darn near better than my other main guy. Solid solid filmer. I have a meeting with all the filmers...they are treated well. We talk about all the positives and negatives (no quitting...in through December or don't join, giving up Friday nights, etc.) I got a ton of buy in. We have our first away game this week and I have to leave some people home. They are going to be disappointed for sure.
These things make it fun, but also stressful. That is why I'm training the filmers hard so I can relieve myself of filming duties 100%. Here is another one...my main film kid....calls all the other filmers and says, "we're meeting after school Thursday to go over how to set up and take down the endzone tripod. Plan on being there at least an hour". This was his idea!!!! Dedicated kids. I love it.
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Post by airraid77 on Sept 14, 2009 22:45:07 GMT -6
tothehouse, Great job finding the people to delegate an important aspect of the program. You have them filming practice yet?
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Post by tiger46 on Sept 15, 2009 0:16:07 GMT -6
tothehouse
"I teach the media class at my school. I have 8 student filmers. My goal this year is to have them set up everything and be 100% in control of the filming situation. That is a lot to ask of these kids...but I expect them to follow through......"
Is there any way that you can set it up as a course- or, part of a course- and, give out grades as part of the class?
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Post by tothehouse on Sept 15, 2009 7:56:20 GMT -6
tiger - I have relaxed a lot of the work for these students and made some of their work part of the class. Make a weekly highlight film, help with player highlight films, etc. Definately including what they do as part of the class. I really want them to feel like they are doing a lot for our program...because they are.
airraid...they film practice. They start filming in the summer to get them ready for the season. We have a morning football class and they often film that as well.
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Post by coach31 on Sept 15, 2009 11:54:38 GMT -6
Well said DC.
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Post by IronmanFootball on Sept 15, 2009 17:42:06 GMT -6
he reminds me of the principal on Parker Lewis Can't Lose, he probably has a security camera on his house!
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