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Post by Wingtman on Apr 23, 2009 11:12:47 GMT -6
Time to write a love letter to coaching. Why do you love our industry? What keeps you coming back?
1. The kids- I have had the chance to work with some great young men and women (during track). The good ones make it great. The bad ones...well....
2. Other coaches- This brotherhood we have is special. I love talking with other coaches. Thru this site I have met a coach in France, and I love helping him out. I have been able to bounce ideas off coaches from all over this great land. Even going to clinics you learn just as much in the hotel bar as you do from some speakers.
3. The "x's" and "o's". The strategy. Sitting up all night watching film. Working on "THE PLAY".
4. The position in the school and the community. I take pride in being a coach.
5. I HONESTLY love and will always fight for this profession!! When schools are cutting programs, sports go first. This is the greatest profession on Earth. I love what we do and will be the first in line to defend it to anyone.
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Post by cmow5 on Apr 23, 2009 11:58:19 GMT -6
little story that happened last season and is one of the many reasons I love coahing. . we had a away game and when we got back all the players had rides besides a couple (freshmen). well one by one the last kids rides showed up and it was just me and one player left. I asked if he called his mom and he siad yeah she should be coming. about 45 mins later I asked him to call again and he said coach my mom is to drunk to drive. Now at our school we are not allowed to give rides to kids because of probelms in the past. so finally we see his moms boyfreind coming to get him and he turnes to me and says "coach, thanks for waiting with me" and he gives me a hug.
I can tell he was embarresed about his mom and he was ready to cry.
just by me waiting with him I think I really showed that I care about him and he can come to me with anything. made me feel good as a coach and a person.
stories like this is why I love this profession.
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Post by jpdaley25 on Apr 23, 2009 15:43:53 GMT -6
...Because you can make a difference doing what we do.
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Post by husky44 on Apr 23, 2009 15:56:04 GMT -6
Like mentioned before it is about making a difference. These kids today have it so much more difficult than most when I was growing up. It seems like soceities problems continue to increase, I'm concerned where things will be in ten years. Being one of the "bright spots" in a kids life is very satisfying.
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Post by slimbo7722 on Apr 23, 2009 16:09:12 GMT -6
Great thread....great answers! THE KIDS.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 23, 2009 21:21:28 GMT -6
I don't know, it always felt right
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Post by CoachCP on Apr 23, 2009 22:43:30 GMT -6
I may never know. But its the only thing in life I could wake up at 6 in the morning or earlier for and not be upset about it.
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Post by phantom on Apr 24, 2009 0:02:47 GMT -6
I've never even thought about it. It's just what I do. I can't imagine not doing it so I guess it's just the way it is.
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Post by touchdownmaker on Apr 24, 2009 4:28:04 GMT -6
Coaching Football has given me an identity. It gives me a purpose and vehicle to do right. Coaching gives us the ability to compete, teach and build relationships. Its fun because it stirs the emotions and brings out the best and worst in all of us.
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Post by julien on Apr 24, 2009 5:24:57 GMT -6
Unfortunately, this is not a profession for me (as for most of the european coaches, I'm not payed to coach) but I really love coaching football.
My father used to say: "when you don't know something: learn it. And when you know something: teach it". I've make this quote mine.
Since the beginning of 2009 I've been able to meet coaches all over the world tru this site. Coach Jenkins or Ted Seay have already help me a lot. And that's why I agree with my man Coach Jenkins: "This brotherhood we have is special". It makes me love more and more football and coaching.
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Post by pantherpride91 on Apr 24, 2009 5:26:15 GMT -6
It gives me a chance to give back to a sport that has brought me so much joy. I knew at about age 16 or 17 that this is what I wanted to do when I got older.
I was a good player, but at 5'9" 170 pounds and running a 4.8 forty (wind-aided) the big time was knocking on my door. So the next way to stay close to the game I had been playing since I was 8 years old was to coach it. I talk to friends who played big time ball and look at NFL players and sometimes I am glad that avenue was not my calling. Sure playing in front of 80,000 would have been nice, but I get just as jacked up coaching in front of 800 for the first scrimmage of the year. Those guys seem to be burnt out on the game and do not enjoy it.
Plus, football, at least at the high school level, is as real as you are going to get. Like cmow said, and I am sure we all have stories like that, the kids look up to you as a coach and person. You are helping to make 14 year old boy that is scared out his mind the first day he steps into the weight room, into a team and school leader by the time he is 17/18.
When I first got into coaching I had an old coach tell me that the wins and losses will come and go. He said you can go from hero to zero in no time. He said communities will flip on you in a hearbeat and parents or administrators that were your biggest fans are now trying to get you out the door. He said if you focus on all that you will never make it and be out of coaching in a couple years. He said what has got him through 30 plus years of coaching has been watching a young man get one more rep on squat rack, or seeing a kid break his old max record, and most importantly being an important part in making a boy into a man
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Post by kboyd on Apr 24, 2009 7:58:31 GMT -6
I don't know, it always felt right Isn't that the truth - I feel the same way
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Post by justryn2 on Apr 24, 2009 8:06:13 GMT -6
A few years ago I had a player on my team that had never even met his father. He was a good player and I was happy to have him on the team but, I didn't consciously treat him any different than any other player. A few months after the season ended his English teacher stopped me to let me know about an assignment he had turned in for her class. The assignment was to write a story about your dad. This kid wrote his story about me.
When you can have that kind of impact on a young man, how can you not love this. Like a lot of others, I'm a volunteer coach. But, its coaching football, teaching this special game to young men, that is my passion in life. I'll work my "day job" until I've saved enough to retire but I'll be a football coach as long as I can find a team that will have me.
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Post by Wingtman on Apr 24, 2009 8:28:50 GMT -6
Anyone ever play that "IF I won 100 million dollar game?" Most people say, "O, I wouldnt stop working or, I'd never do anything again." Im one of those, I'd never do anything again people......EXCEPT coach. I'd volunteer coach somewhere or work at a school (if I had too to coach) then just donate my school salary back to the school for the library or athletic department or something.
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Post by phantom on Apr 24, 2009 10:03:10 GMT -6
Anyone ever play that "IF I won 100 million dollar game?" Most people say, "O, I wouldnt stop working or, I'd never do anything again." Im one of those, I'd never do anything again people......EXCEPT coach. I'd volunteer coach somewhere or work at a school (if I had too to coach) then just donate my school salary back to the school for the library or athletic department or something. If I won $100 million I know two things: 1. I'd still coach, and 2. My college wouldn't be playing sprint football anymore.
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Post by cmow5 on Apr 24, 2009 10:33:56 GMT -6
Anyone ever play that "IF I won 100 million dollar game?" Most people say, "O, I wouldnt stop working or, I'd never do anything again." Im one of those, I'd never do anything again people......EXCEPT coach. I'd volunteer coach somewhere or work at a school (if I had too to coach) then just donate my school salary back to the school for the library or athletic department or something. I thought I was the only one to think that. I would do NOTHING and I mean NOTHING, but I would still coach.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 24, 2009 14:11:08 GMT -6
Oddly though, I'm a way better coach than I ever was a player
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Post by kylem56 on Apr 24, 2009 21:00:05 GMT -6
Same here coachkell, everything about it. The gameplanning, the practices, molding kids into good people, the relationships you build. Most importantly, making a difference in the lives of young people
theres a quote out there that goes something like this...
"When I get to the pearly gates and see St. Peter, I doubt he will care how many games I won, but that I made a difference in the world"
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Post by lnueva32 on Apr 24, 2009 21:00:51 GMT -6
The KIDS!!
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Post by schultbear74 on Apr 24, 2009 21:27:26 GMT -6
I am a better coach than I ever was a player as well. When I was a kid, my Dad worked at home and he was always there for me. I couldn't do what he did so I did the next best thing. I noticed that the football coaches got to do this wonderful thing all summer long. They brought their kids with them and they were involved in helping their dads. We became part of their lives and families. I have spent my summers in the sun with my kids and other people's kids. If I won 100 million dollars- I would be no wealthier then I am right now and I would spend my life doing what I love and loving what I do.
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Post by phantom on Apr 24, 2009 21:29:33 GMT -6
I don't know if I could have handled teaching for so long if I didn't get to coach. This isn't an "I only teach because I have to" post. After teaching all day it was often refreshing to get to practice and work with kids who want to be there.
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Post by hawke on Apr 24, 2009 21:52:49 GMT -6
After 46 years it's still hard to put into words. Don't let anyone BS you, ego is involved to a degree, the challenge, etc. but what I always found to be the most important thing to me was helping a young man find his way. If it wasn't for football I would have probably been somewhere that's better not to mention. It more or less made me who I am. I was one of those guys who came from the wrong side of the tracks so to speak and football did a lot for me (meaning the coaches of course). I only hope that I have been the influence in the lives of some young people that others have been in mine. It has never been about winning games although we have won our share (over 300).It has always been more about being a "D" student - DESIRE, DISCIPLINE, AND DEDICATION. Teach those and you'll have a "winner."
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Post by hawke on Apr 24, 2009 22:05:49 GMT -6
To carry it somewhat farther - my son gave this to me when he was 9 years old. Where he got it I don't know. It is framed in his printing and it has hung on the wall in "my" den for all these years:
A COACH'S REWARD
A coach knocked ate the pearly gates, His face was scared and cold. He stood before the man of fate For admission to the fold. What have you done Saint Peter asked To gain admission here? I've been a football coach Sir, he said, For many and many a year. The pearly gets swung open wide As Saint Peter touched the bell. Come in, he said, And choose your harp, You've had your share of Hell!!!.
It's been hanging there for over 31 years and I read it every day.
Hawke
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Post by zbessac on Apr 25, 2009 8:54:45 GMT -6
Coaching football has combined two of my favorite things. I love football and I love teaching kids, of all ages. I am able to teach young men and even a few young women to play the game of football, but also how to grow up and become good people. Not to mention coaching has introduced me to some of my best friends and it gives me something to constantly think about.
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Post by td4tc on Apr 26, 2009 8:08:19 GMT -6
at 3:00 pm each day during the season even if I've had a sh it day till then, everything just seems right when i step on the practice field with my staff and players. at 3:00 pm in the off season i'm lost...unless i happen to be golfing.then i'm lost in the woods looking for balls.
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Post by coachorr on Apr 26, 2009 8:19:48 GMT -6
If I won a million dollars I would hire an administrative assistant (someone to take care of grading and other trivial paperwork) and continue to coach and teach.
If I won $50 million, I would build a new stadium and a football complex for our grid kid program and donate some money to our school to get new computers and a science lab.
The reason why I love teaching and coaching, because it doesn't feel like work when I get up in the morning and leave the house.
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Post by hawke on Apr 26, 2009 10:29:52 GMT -6
Your last statement says a lot Coach. I have interviewed a number of prospective teachers in my career and I always saved one question for last. I would probably ask the same question if I were interviewing prospective coaches. I only had 1 person ever score a perfect 10 on the interview and today he is an excellent Social Studies teacher. My question: "At the end of the day, how do you know you did a good job?" Most everyone tried to answer it with all these long drawn out intellectual answers. I was only looking for one answer and this young man gave it to me immediately and to me it is the only acceptable answer: I HAD FUN!!!!! Think about it, it says a lot.
Hawke
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Post by fbdoc on Apr 26, 2009 10:41:49 GMT -6
My dad, who was a contractor, told me at a very young age. "Find something that you love to do, and then convince someone to PAY you to do it!" I've been teaching and coaching for 28 years. On those really great days I still pause and think, I can't believe I'm getting paid to do this!
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Post by coachmpope on Apr 26, 2009 17:50:04 GMT -6
I heard the head coach at Duke University speak at a banquet in February. He made a point that summed up why i love coaching the greatest game there is. He said that a lot of men love coaching football and all the things that go with that profession, but the ones who really love it the most are the ones that can not do without it. I am one of those guys. After 34 years of coaching and 10 of playing before becoming a coach I have found I cannot and will not do without it. It is a physical struggle sometimes still coaching but I really believe that when I die I hope it is on a football field on 4th down and goal to win a big game and as the official raises his hands "TOUCHDOWN" I look up at my wife and family and I go to the great football game in the sky and serve my lord hopefully as an offensive coordinator on GOD'S team.
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Post by fbdoc on Apr 26, 2009 18:13:04 GMT -6
coahmpope - I know not everyone will agree, but as tog likes to say...
Ding Ding Ding
We have a Winner!
Great Post - Thanks for sharing it!
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