Athletic Code - Statute of Lmitations

This is ridiculous.  So I smoke weed as a freshman, turn my life around because some school teacher/coach paid some attention to me and motivated me to get on the straight and narrow, and then somebody turns in a picture when I am a junior and I am punished?!?  And we wonder why kids don't play sports and parents think schools have lost all ability to use common sense.

Here is my question, all of the time I hear teachers belly aching because mom and dad drop off their kid at school and expect the teacher to raise their kid.  They gripe and complain because they think they shouldn't have to do this, the parent should.  And yet, you as a teacher/administrator turn around and try to hand out punishment to a kid for something he did while not at school?

How about this thought, if a kid breaks a rule from the time of the first game to the time of the last game, you have the ability to police that kids life, any other time stay the he!! out of these kids life.  I HATE THESE POLICIES.  I am all about setting examples and trying to get kids to make the right decisions, I think that is just the right thing to do. But I don't think any school district has any right to tell a kid what he can do outside of school.  How many coaches/teachers/administrators drink to much, smoke cigs or weed and so on (just go to any coaching clinic)?   

Not trying to hijack or start a major argument, but this stuff drives me nuts.